venus vs. mars

i feel very much confusing these days....
getting some call and invitation from friends....
yah....male friends
good friends indeed but!!!!
the boyish part of me says "hey,why not...let's hangout dude"
hmmm....
the girlish part of me pause a bit..."erm...."
one on one hang out??
will it b a cold and weird "date" if facing him one on one...
will people misunderstood us...
gosh~~
those negative thinkings kept buzzing in me...
i must admit i'm kinda "think too much" people
i will have lots of consideration stuff on-going my mind
what should i do?
i feel like letting my friends down if i reject tat way...
help anyone...tell me how...
or
mayb i want to reserve the best "one on one" date for him...
simply confusing~~~@@